“According to BLS Bureau of Labor Statistics last reported in the month of February an unemployment rate of 9.7% based on the overall percentage of the labor force.”

You recently lost your job and finding a new one in this economy is tough… at least you thought! ….reality hasn’t quite set in for some of you who were recently let go…. still re-inventing yourself……. Your self-esteem has plummeted…..two early un-expecting family events have come up ….your whole world has suddenly turned upside down….the drive to work was so stressful….. you need some time to think about whether you’re going to look for a job or re-think a career change…

Unexpectedly you receive…

 A text message that says, congratulations, you have the qualifications we’re looking for…would love to schedule an appointment for  Monday ….

 Quite frankly, you have heard of the old adage, “what you wish for you may just get.”  That’s exactly what happened to one of you saddened, distraught, penniless, rejected, hopeless unemployed persons this past week.

  Sorry, but your transitioning period has come to an abrupt halt….the how you hate your former supervisor….question yourself about why you didn’t save more for a rainy day ….all the bills you have…..that there’s no food in the house….who would hire me now attitude…. you’re the lucky one…worry no more.

 Get the picture…..you have an important decision to make… your wishes, dreams, and prayers have been answered.   I don’t know but some of you may have considered starting your own business…saying no to this opportunity ….retire all together…. return to school or move somewhere else. Let’s just say that you said yes to the job offer and were hired.

 If this happens to you I suggest that you consider the life you had imagined a few days ago when you were daydreaming… go ahead and rearrange your travel plans…. visit those persons you haven’t seen in such a long time…take that vacation you always talked about… join that yoga class… meet with that scheduled career or life coach….count your blessings… And most importantly, don’t drop that volunteer work that you signed up for…finally, support the people you met who are still networking and beating the pavement each day to find a job. 

Curt Canada provides Executive, Leadership Development,and Career Coaching in Washington, D.C.  He holds a Masters degree from University of Iowa and The American University in Social Work and Teacher Education. Visit Curt at http://www.findingyourzenith.com

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 I know that we are all inundated with news events that have placed so much stress on us! Our questionable economy, foreclosures,  health care reform, military family away from home, and continued job loss has overwhelmed many. You may have read a similar article I wrote last year about showing gratitude but I think this act of kindness and acknowledgement only energizes and plant unknown positive possibilities for each of us to model and share.

The practice of gratitude as a tool for happiness has been in the mainstream for years. Long-term studies support gratitude’s effectiveness, suggesting that a positive, appreciative attitude contributes to greater success in work, greater health, peak performance in sports and business, a higher sense of well-being, and a faster rate of recovery from surgery. But while we may acknowledge gratitude’s many benefits, it still can be difficult to sustain. So many of us are trained to notice what is broken, undone or lacking in our lives.  And for gratitude to meet its full healing potential in our lives, it needs to become more than just a Thanksgiving word. We have to learn a new way of looking at things, a new habit. And that can take some time.

 That’s why practicing gratitude makes so much sense. When we practice giving thanks for all we have, instead of complaining about what we lack, we give ourselves the chance to see all of life as an opportunity and a blessing.

 Remember that gratitude isn’t a blindly optimistic approach in which the bad things in life are whitewashed or ignored. It’s more a matter of where we put our focus and attention. Pain and injustice exist in this world, but when we focus on the gifts of life, we gain a feeling of well-being. Gratitude balances us and gives us hope.

 There are many things we can be grateful for: Spring Day Lilies, legs that work, friends who listen and really hear, hot bowl of Quaker oatmeal, family, yoga, rescue dogs, afternoon thunderstorm, the ability to read, roses, our health, butterflies, new fresh spring grass! What’s on your list?

 Some Ways to Practice Gratitude

•  Keep a gratitude journal in which you list things for which you are thankful. You can make daily, weekly or monthly lists.

•  Make a gratitude card from recent family or outdoor photos .

•  Practice gratitude around the dinner table or make it part of your night-time routine.

•  Make a game of finding the hidden blessing in a challenging situation.

 • When you feel like complaining, make a gratitude list instead. You might amazed by how much better you feel.

 •  Notice how gratitude is impacting your life. Write about it, sing about it, express thanks for gratitude.

 As you practice, an inner shift begins to occur, and you might be  delighted to discover how content and hopeful you are feeling. That sense of fulfillment is gratitude at work.

                                                           THANK  YOU !

Curt Canada MSW is an Executive, Leadership Development, and Life Coach in Washington, D.C.

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